My Ideal Guy…

1. Be courteous to others—not just me.
2. Love to laugh with me.
3. Love to cuddle with me.
4. Tickle me—physically and emotionally.
5. Be willing to defend me.
6. Be supportive.
7. Be a dreamer.
8. Generally be more optimistic than pessimistic, but should also be realistic
9. Develop his own opinions and therefore not always agree with me, but still respect my beliefs.
10. Possess a sarcastic, somewhat dry sense of humor.
11. Possess some childish and endearing quirk about him.
12. Have an interest in the written arts.
13. Be able to calm me down when I am nervous or comfort me when I am upset
14. Be comfortable talking with me.
15. Be happy in my company.
16. Have a life outside of me. I am allowed to be his “whole world’ emotionally, but not literally. I want him to love me, not obsess over me.
17. Be willing to teach, but also to be taught.
18. Keep his promises to me and to others, especially if they are important ones.
19. Be a good listener and be interested in what I have to say.
20. Be somewhat traditional, but should still be open to new ideas.
21. Be comfortable just sitting in silence with me.
22. Be more interested in my personality than my looks.
23. Be faithful. Distance should not interfere with loyalty.
24. Respect my need to write and write and write
25. Be altruistic and willing to help those in need
26. Be at least slightly geeky or nerdy.
27. Accept me for who I am my personality, my beliefs, and my looks.
28. Read for pleasure.
29. Enjoy listening to rock music (more Classic and Alternative/Indie than other subgenres)
30. Possess good hygiene.
31. Believes that, with no interference, he and I could fall in love with each other one day.
32. Not be concerned whether I wear make-up or not and like the way I look with or without it
33. Make an effort to call me before I call him to coordinate dates.
34. Not be overly religious. He should forgive me for my minor sins.
35. Contact me just to ask how I am doing that day.
36. Be willing to proceed slowly in our relationship
37. Should not immediately declare his love for me; he should wait at least a few months, not days or weeks.
38. Stay reasonably updated on the news.
39. Must respect my friends
40. Be physically fit, but not too built.
41. Possess gorgeous eyes (brown, hazel, or green)
42. Be tall, dark, and handsome.
43. Must respect my choice not to drink
44. Must respect my privacy and understand that I want to be alone sometimes.
45. Must like visiting parks.
46. Have some financial sense.
47. Not feel intimidated by me.
48. Be appreciative that I am his.
49. Not be afraid of foreign languages and cultures
50. Not be too judgmental.
51. Be kind and considerate.
52. Tolerate my little games and be willing to play along in them most of the time.
53. Respect my right to hold secrets that don’t affect him.
54. Have an inquisitive mind.
55. Tolerate my inquisitive mind.
56. Be assertive.
57. Be a truly deep thinker.
58. Be the best he can be, not only for me but himself.
59. Not be afriad to speak his mind.
60. Just be himself, without fear of not being good enough for me.